Are you a complete homeschooling beginner? Then this post is for you. I know with the worldwide situation right now, more and more parents are starting to consider homeschooling. But where to start?
Grab a notebook and pencil and start your serious research into every topic below. These are just starting points that would guide you in the right direction, so get cozy and dive in.
1. Check the law
The first thing you want to do is make sure you are covered legally. What are the laws in your country or state? Start researching thoroughly.
For expats or worldschoolers, please note that you will fall under the incidence of the local laws in regards to education (for most countries, but there are a few exceptions).
In Romania things are gray. Homeschooling is not controlled by law yet and it will hopefully stay the same for a while because this offers the parents the most freedom in regards to what style of homeschooling and what type of system they can choose to school into.
You can homeschool legally in Romania by doing it under an umbrella school. I wrote more about umbrella schools here. Make sure your umbrella gives you transcripts at the end of each year. Without transcripts and a proof of enrollment you aren’t covered legally.
- HLSDA website – search your country to see the current legal situation in your corner of the world.
- Wikipedia – international homeschooling
- Romanian Constitution – Art. 32
- Romanian Constitution – Art. 29 (6)
- Legea 272/2014 – Art. 51 (2)
2. Homeschooling styles – beginner
Yes, there are more types of homeschooling. To name the basic: homeschooling, unschooling, worldschooling, gameschooling.
They then split into more branches according to the type of approach: classical homeschooling, eclectic homeschooling, Charlotte Mason, Montessori, Waldorf – inspired, child-led (unit studies).
There are more ways to adopt this style of living and learning, but this is a good starting point for any homeschooling beginner.
I will mention the most notable differences between the styles but you can see the links below to read more about every type on your own.
Please note you can mix parts of them to make a style that firs you best. Also note that there is no ”one size fits all” when it comes to homeschooling, even if you have more than one child.
Homeschooling usually refers to all branches of schooling at home. But my definition goes more towards the classic way of approaching academics with books and workbooks just like in a traditional classroom setting. This encompasses classical homeschooling (which means you follow a classical approach) and eclectic homeschooling.
Unschooling is widely misunderstood as ”doing nothing”. The best unschoolers I know offer their children rich opportunities for learning besides being themselves well-read and knowledgeable as to guide their children to learn everything they need to.
Worldschooling is pretty self explainatory. It’s schooling while traveling.It offers your children the opportunity to learn hands-on while living life on the road, learning about different cultures and immersing themselves in different countries, absorbing everything as they go.
Gameschooling is schooling through boardgames. Parents that choose this way of schooling would pick the very best educational games to expose their children to.
Even if we aren’t gameschoolers, we like using games in our schooling. You can check our Favorites section to see some of the games we are using.
Books to read on homeschooling and how kids learn
*Bookdepository links- just click on each image.
3. Learning styles- a beginner’s guide
Before deciding on your favorite type of homeschool or your favorite curriculum, you must read more on the types of learning.
Start by answering these questions:
- Is your child an auditory, kinesthetic, or visual learner?
- What kind of learner are you?
- Do you honestly see yourself teaching like that? Would you need outside help?
Learn more about the learning styles from
4. Learning disabilities
Does your child have a learning disability?
If you know about it it will be easier to address it. If you don’t, be on the lookout for these common learning impediments: dysgraphia, dislexia, dyscalculia.
Some children just need extra help overcoming these. The best way to know if your child has a problem was to observe them at home and if you think their learning is in any way delayed by a possible problem, consult with a learning specialist in your area.
There are many wonderful schools and programs for families that need extra help. Like HOPE from Bridgeway Academy that is great for families that need extra help (get 100$ off when you enroll using the code at the end of our article here).
- Take your time to visit each school’s website. Compare what they each have to offer and see which one would be the best fit for your family.
- Narrow it down to 2-3 options that you research more in-depth before committing to any one.
- Read reviews, watch YouTube videos, contact families that have been enrolled there and then write to the school with any questions you might have.
Once you are confident you picked the best one for your needs, it’s time to withdraw your children from school (if you haven’t done so yet) and enroll them to their new umbrella school, online school or distance school.
But before you jump in, don’t forget about the deschooling!
Have your children been to a regular school before? If yes, this one is for you: you need to deschool them.
What is deschooling?
It’s basically letting your kids ”decompress” and “relax” after attending school. They need this time to reconnect with learning and discovering things on their own, they need to “get used to not being in school”.
It’s a great time to observe your kids and see HOW they learn the best, WHAT they like to learn about and also the perfect opportunity for you to find out more about what this homeschooling thing is about.
The amount of deschooling depends on the years of school they have been attending. It’s usually one month for every year of school they attended.
While you diligently do your homeschooling homework, offer your kids time to deschool. Surround them by good books, board games, good documentaries and movies and a lot of free time to get ”bored” and let them discover learning all over again.
Learn more about deschooling from here
Books for parents to read while you “deschool”
*Bookdepository links, just click on the image.
7. Curriculum starting points for a homeschooling beginner
This actually is dependent on both you learning style, your wishes, your school of choice (in some situations) and your budget.
You can choose to go with the school’s curriculum or pick your own. There are a LOT of good publishers internationally, that’s why we chose to homeschool in English (so we have access to a wider range of learning materials).
I won’t start a list about all curricula out there, because there aren’t enough words to covert all. But here are some of OUR favorite publishers to get you started. Some of them cover multiple subjects.
- Evan moor
- Logic of English
- Pandia press
- Ellen J Mchenry
- Institute of excellence in writing
- Scholastic UK
- Scholastic US
- Beast Academy (Amazon)
And some of our favorite extras
- MEL chemistry (read our review on them here)
- Audible (free 14 days)
- Super teacher worksheets
- Khan academy
- Big history project
I will try my best to come up with a more comprehensive list of our favorite publishers, resources, and apps but until then you can check out our favorite resources.
Or read more about our curriculum picks this year or the blog posts about each subject.
7. Find like-minded people
As a complete homeschooling beginner, having people around you for support is great when you are starting out. Make sure you find the local groups, go to homeschooling meetings and try to find people you resonate with.
You will come upon days that you find it hard and you feel like quitting. Being part of a tribe that gets you is very important in moments like those.
8. Planning your homeschooling – for a complete beginner
I wrote a separate article on how we plan our school year. Feel free to take inspiration from there.
There are also many ways to go about it. Just looking at schedules you have:
- Traditional schedule – it’s following the school calendar.
- Calendar schedule – the school year starts in January.
- Year round homeschooling schedule – school year starts whenever you want and it lasts for roughly one year.
- Sabbath homeschooling schedule – 6 weeks on, one week off.
- Block scheduling – working on a fewer subjects for a long period of time. For example you can choose to do history one semester and geography the next.
- Loop schedule– picking your subjects and creating a loop to make sure you cover everything. A subject can appear more than once in your plan.
- One subject per day schedule – it’s what we do right now, you can read more here.
Then comes the matter of the medium for planning. You can choose whatever works best for you and your family from online planners to offline, to making your own (you can download ours from the Resource Library) or just keeping a regular notebook as your planner.
Here’s how other people do it:
- Homeeducator – Step by step planning
- Pam Barnhill – sample weekly schedule
- Weird Unsocialized Homeschoolers – planning your homeschool calendar
9. Keep calm and homeschool on – you’re doing OK
There will be hard days coming, especially as a homeschooling beginner in this homeschooling journey. We all have them, even the veteran homeschoolers. Don’t expect everything to go according to plan. Some days are harder than others. Some days you won’t be able to ”achieve” much. And it’s all OK as long as you keep doing your thing. Consider that you have 365 days in a year. Doing just a little bit every day adds up to a lot in one year. And skipping a day here and there won’t mean your children aren’t learning.
I already mentioned being part of groups to help you but you can also implement methods at home to help you cope.
Here are some books, blogs, documentaries and techniques for those days when you can’t get anything done.
- Red Head Mom: Strategies for homeschooling a resistant child
- Homeschool On: Homeschooling an Uncooperative Child
- Alicia Hutchinson: 101 reasons why homeschooling is hard
- Greater Good: How to reduce the stress of homeschooling on everyone
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